Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Life After Agent

Like many unpublished writers, I spent a lot of energy and time researching the publishing world. I stalked, er, sought out, various agents, learning everything I could about their tastes before submitting my work. I sorted my rejections, replying to each and absorbing any direct feedback I received.

It was familiar. I knew the rules.

Now that I have an agent, I find that I'm in uncharted territory. We're on submission, but any rejections that have come in go to her, not to me. It's strange to not have up-to-the-minute information to fixate on. Honestly, it's difficult: when I was submitting my work, my overbearing type A personality was happy. I was constantly receiving information, which I could take or leave, but I know that the process was helping me to grow as a writer.

But now, I feel a bit helpless. I know that my goal to find the perfect agent was aiming towards this end, but now that I've found her, it's hard for me to sit back and twiddle my thumbs, without even rejection letters to analyze. I know she'll tell me if there's anything worth telling, but still, it's a whole different world. I know nothing about this side of the process, which is why I wanted to work with my agent in the first place. Ah, the circle of irony.

For awhile, I got lazy after signing with my agent. I stopped working on the trilogy that she's pitching, and played around with various other novels. I didn't realize I was wasting time, but I was.

Last weekend, I gave myself a tarot reading, and the results were pretty emphatic: if cards could shout, mine were yelling in frustration. "Do your work, stop wasting time, focus on what matters!" I've learned to listen to messages like that, wherever they happen to come from in the universe.

So I set aside the play novels, rolled up my sleeves, and dove back into book two of the trilogy. I have a lot of work to do before I can send it off to my agent, but it's work I love. And hopefully, this will keep me from obsessing too much about the fate of book one. It's out of my hands now!

And that's the hardest part.

14 comments:

  1. Good luck!! I can't wait to read book 2 -- or book 1, for that matter!
    As for the "play novels"--those are still exercises in writing and finishing a project so I wouldn't call that wasted time. In fact, if writing something else is the way you give your brain a "break" from writing what you really need/want to work on, I'd call it time well spent.

    (Of course, this comes from a procrastinator who should be writing, at the moment!)

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    1. Lory,
      Thanks for the encouragement! You're right, the "play" was good for me.

      Taking a break isn't a bad thing, and we need to all eliminate the word "should" from our writerly vocabulary! :)

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  2. I can imagine how difficult this can be. Just keep writing.

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  3. Ah... the submission blues. But you are doing the right think by busying yourself with your writing. I wouldn't necessarily say working on the play novels wasn't useful -- you don't want to burn out on the trilogy -- but knowing how to prioritize your projects is also a good thing. Best of luck on the writing and subbing!

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    1. Thanks, Bluestocking. You're right, as usual :)

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  4. sending lots of encouragement from a desk in Cary... wish it was from a chair next to you in starbucks, but hey ;)

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  5. You ladies are right..."waste of time" might have been too strong a phrase, as I was still flexing my literary muscles. Thanks for the support!

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  6. Sheesh. When I hit the submission blues, I devoured a tub of Blue Bell ice cream AND the entire show of The Guardian. *I* think you're doing great. :)

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    1. A tub of ice cream doesn't sound too bad right now...but thank you!

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  7. Sometimes you just have to jump into something else. It helps with forgetting and occupies your time. I know that's what I've been doing w. a full I have out. Well, it's KINDA helping me forget.. lol Sorta. *refreshes inbox*

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    1. Elizabeth,

      I know what you mean! I've been checking my email compulsively. You're right, it's good to occupy our time while waiting.

      Thanks for the encouragement!

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  8. Hahah I think every writer suffers from the compulsive email checking! And no problem :)

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